Sunday, July 31st - Day 42 Final Update

This is Todd, Tim's brother. As Guy mentioned I spent the night with Tori Saturday. Ours was a quiet night as Tori was still being affected by the drugs from the earlier procedure which I was present for (the PIC line frustration). During my night I was torn as to whether to try and stimulate her or let her rest. With the afternoon she had Sunday I'm glad I let her rest mostly - the short times she was somewhat awake (after a suction or a coughing spell)I did make eye contact and reassured her I was there for her. She didn't respond that I could tell but I sensed she recognized me and went back to resting - her eye lids were so very heavy! A comment about Tori's care: If you want the best possible care for a loved one and the best possible outcome be active in that care. Be VERY active. Tim & Maria have done exactly that and more. As a college student I spent a number of years working as a PT aide at several rehab. centers. I worked with hundreds of patients and families and none have shown as much involvement or tenacity in making sure their loved one gets the best care... Tim & Maria you both have shown, and continue to show unbelievable strength, courage, and perseverance!! I want to tell Guy that this site and its' setup are amazing, helpful and awesome - and so are YOU. Family and friends - God has a plan for every one of us, He knows Tori, He is with Tori. We don't know why but right now Tori's life plan has an absolutely heart wrenching physical and emotional trial to get through. Please keep Tori, Tim, Maria and all others in your prayers and/or thoughts. Stop by, call or comment on the web site they all make a difference. God Bless, and Bye for now.